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Jim

Jim feels surrounded. He’s 35 years old and, to an outside observer, is doing great. He has a promising career, a lovely family, and a winning smile that he hides behind for dear life. Because beneath the surface, he’s barely holding on. The truth is, he’s been hiding his whole life.

Growing up with an abusive father, it was easier to stay small, quiet, and out of the way lest he face his father’s wrath. People do things that remind him of that cruelty, and he gets angry. Sometimes, it’s all too much, and he blows up at his own family. He sees his kids looking at him the way he looked at his dad, and it kills him.

Rachel

Rachel feels inauthentic. She works hard, excels at every task, and does it all with cheer and efficiency. She even volunteers in her free time – she’s a subject of respect and admiration. Everyone thinks she’s great; everyone except her, that is.

For as long as she can remember, she’s felt closed off from other people. As a child, she was abused by her stepbrothers and found that the best way to cope was by turning inward. She wants to settle down and start a family – but she can’t bring herself to be vulnerable with anyone. Instead, she distracts herself with partying and flings, but it doesn’t bring any satisfaction.

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Carl

Carl feels alone. He has ever since that day. While deployed overseas with the Navy, his helicopter came under fire and crashed. In the ensuing battle, several of his friends were killed. He barely made it out alive himself.

These days, he works out of the extra bedroom and rarely leaves the house. His wife does all the outside chores, and his kids no longer ask him to go to their games or events. He never sees anyone besides his family, and it’s hard to connect even with them. Every day, his life seems to shrink further, and he wonders if he’ll ever feel safe, confident, or understood again.

Becky

Becky feels betrayed. She thought that everything between her and her husband was okay. They had a good sex life, got along well, and seemed like a healthy couple. Everything changed when she saw his laptop open to a chat window with another woman. The things he wrote and the pictures he sent shocked her.

In a moment, it felt like the world crashed all around her. When she confronted him, he tried his best to lie and deflect but eventually begged for forgiveness. She still loves him and isn’t ready to throw away everything they built together, but she just can’t move past this betrayal.

*These are fictitious names and scenarios used only to illustrate real-life situations.
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Hi, I’m Chris!

Christopher Doriani, LSCW, ASCW

When we go into a bakery, our eyes land on bread that is clearly baked with care and has unique ingredients instead of boring generic loaves.

Same for a five-star restaurant. We know that the chef will deliver the best that can be offered. The restaurant stakes its reputation on the chef’s craft.

High-quality therapy is the same way. A well-prepared therapist doesn’t cut corners. He’s prepared through study and years of experience. He selects the right elements to help the people that he serves. That’s what I offer.

I will listen carefully and craft a plan to eradicate the pain from your bumps and bruises so you may reconnect with hope, goodness, and healing.

Allow me to meet with you and learn who you are in ways you don’t share with others. I appreciate the unique and wonderful things you bring to the world; let’s embrace them!

Call me now to take the next step on this healing journey.

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Jim

Jim met with me, and we developed a plan. Just the act of someone taking him seriously without judgment allowed him to share things he’d previously been unable to say. It was a relief to open up and grieve his childhood. Now, he’s given himself permission to become vulnerable with his wife and is committed to lavishing his children with the love and attention they need.

Rachel

Rachel contacted me, and we started helping her learn to love herself again. We explored her past and discovered that she still held onto a great deal of shame from what she endured as a child. Through our work, she soon realized she was not to blame for what happened. Now, she no longer feels the need to distract herself constantly and is opening her heart to the love she deserves.

Carl

Carl called me, and we immediately started working through the trauma he’d experienced. He learned new coping skills and set manageable goals for himself to achieve. Little by little, he was able to begin facing his fears and participating in life again. Now, he’s taking his kids to the park, going on dates with his wife, and even picking up his guitar for the first time since the crash.

Becky

Becky arranged her first appointment with me while still feeling deeply conflicted. Together, we worked to validate the pain she was feeling and her need for her husband to accept full responsibility for his actions. Soon, they began reconnecting, talking issues through with honesty and openness. Now, she’s found a way to forgive her husband, and they’re happier than they’ve ever been together.

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